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Looking for an easygoing poly girlfriend

I am poly, pagan, bi, other, and one serious hellcat. I don't have that filter that tells me when to shut up and play nice, so don't expect me to be cute and quiet. I've been married for 12 years to a wonderful man, we have a son together. I am looking for a girlfriend, but something easy-going and casual. Note, I am not a swinger, so I would prefer someone serious and I will not have relations with your boyfriend/husband. Nothing against swingers, I am just not one. If you were born male and are otherwise female in all other ways, I am fine with that. I love to LARP, play video games, watch movies, listen to and learn about new music, talk about TV shows and current events, go to coffee, hang out, go try new restaurants, try new things in general. I am a big geek, but consider myself more of a gothi-loli-geek. I love online shopping and finding great deals and I generally never shut up about how good I am at it. I am working on physical fitness, so someone who can encourage me to get my lard butt off the couch is a bonus. I am looking for someone who wants to try new things, hang out, have fun, and generally work towards the possibility of a committed poly relationship. I am a big believer in friends first, so even if we end up being friends, I am cool with that. No pressure, just possibilities.

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
BuildA few extra pounds
Height157 cm
Eye ColorHazel
Hair ColorBlack
Best featureSmile
Body ArtOther

Situation

Has childrenOne
Wants kidsYes
Housing SituationIt gets a bit crazy sometimes
Living ArrangementsWith kid(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
Have PetsCat

Education & Employment

EducationHigh school Diploma - GED or equivalent
SpecialtyOther
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual income$25,000 - $50,000

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesNews
Favorite TV showsTrue Blood, Torchwood, Weeds
Favorite movies typesScience fiction
Favorite moviesLove all kinds, can't pick 3
Favorite artistsIisten to all kinds of music, can't just pick 3 or certain categories
Reading selectionComic
Favorite booksNo time to read for anything but work these days, but love Kushiel's Dart serie
Idea of funHanging out with friends, making dinner together, good conversation over dinner, watching a movie or playing Rock Band later on, maybe dessert with a nice coffee after that, just laid back and relaxing.
HobbiesExercising

Personality

SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorReserved
Friends describe asTroublemaker
In High School I was a(n)Outcast
Sense of humorCampy
My great timeHanging out with friends
Always wanted to tryTraveling to other countries, learning a new language, dancing lessons, watching a Bollywood movie in the theater, mandolin lessons, patisserie classes.

Views

Political viewsVery liberal
ReligionOther
Attend religious servicesEvery day
Goal in lifeFirst, go back to school and finish with a degree in something that really grabs me. Raise my son to be independent, strong, and willing/able to move out of my house at an appropriate age. Work, have fun, enjoy life, save money until retirement. Sell most of my belongings, buy an RV, and travel once retired. Be happy, content, loved, and loving.

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence
Look for in a partnerPlease be open minded, intelligent, a great conversationalist, someone who loves to talk! Be interested in being spontaneous or just hanging out with no plans. Don't be so stuck up that you can't sit down and watch TV with me or GASP listen to mainstream radio once in awhile. Like or at least tolerate children...even better, love children. Tolerate the fact that I am married and my family will need to come first on occasion, but that I will give you my all when I can. Be able to communicate your needs, likes, dislikes, etc without apologies or being passive-aggressive. Be confident, strong, and willing to take risks. Be someone who doesn't mind getting a little dirty in the kitchen to cook, bake, or both or to at least nibble if I decide to bake. Don't be jealous or possessive. Don't expect me to be jealous or possessive. Be open to trying new things or enjoying new experiences. Be willing to share your interests, goals, dreams, ideas, theories, opinions and challenge mine. Be wil
On the first dateCoffee shop, good conversation, getting to know you and relaxed atmosphere, no preconceived notions.