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don't understand the picky people

I'm 5'10 with a few extra pounds (I'm working on it alright) some facial hair. I'm a strange person, most people just don't get, and probably thought of as boring. I work, I write, I listen to music, I take care of my kid (Yeah, one of those...Problem?).

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EthnicityCaucasian / White
BuildA few extra pounds
Height5' 10" (178 cm)
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorBrown
Best featureEyes
Body ArtVisible tattoo


Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenOne
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsWith parent(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
Have PetsCat

Education & Employment

EducationHigh school Diploma - GED or equivalent
Employment StatusFull-time

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesNews
Favorite TV showsWho knows...
Favorite movies typesAction
Favorite moviesToo many...
Music typesRock
Favorite artistsToo many...Iced Earth, King Diamond, Nevermore
Reading selectionAncient
Favorite booksToo Many...Dark Tower Series, Dark Places, Great and Secret Show
Idea of funPeople would say that I am kinda boring. I like a bar, going to movies, dining (just generally eating out, ha), reading and writing, documentaries and learning new things, music.
HobbiesArts & Crafts


SmokerSmoke regularly (5-10 a day)
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorReserved
Friends describe asFriendly
In High School I was a(n)Outcast
Sense of humorCampy
My great timeHanging out with friends
Always wanted to tryJumping in the lake in the dead of winter.


Political viewsMiddle of the road
Attend religious servicesEvery day
Goal in lifeTo take care of my family and be free of the daily grind. I'm a writer so profesionally I want to write.

Looking For

Must maveIntelligence
Look for in a partnerSomeone who ATTEMPTS to understand me and wants to be understood. Somone intelligent, who can hold a conversation, can read, can be objective, who doesn't base everything on looks and dick size and who wants to be committed with an open mind...
On the first dateDepends on the person. I find the best way to get to know someone is to first email things you want to know and vice-versa. You don't have to be shy when meeting if they already know the things you were bold enough to state online. And a few (Bunch) of drinks and good conversation is always great.